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How to Have a Hopeful New Year

January is in the books.

Most people, however, would still consider this the “new year.” Yet, most people have likely already broken one or more of their New Year’s resolutions.

The good news, though, is that even if many people fail at maintaining them over time, New Year’s resolutions have still been shown to be quite successful for helping people resolve problem behaviors without professional treatment.[1]

One study showed that 77 percent of resolvers maintained their behavioral commitments for one week, 55 percent for one month, and 40 percent for six months.[2]

So, what causes the unsuccessful resolvers to derail, while so many others can persist and see their resolutions through?

Stop Fantasizing about Being Successful and Start Simulating the Process of Becoming Successful

We all have fantasies of success, however we may choose to define success.

Self-help gurus have been telling us forever that if we can see it, we can be it. If we believe it, we can achieve it. If we have a clear mental picture of ourselves living the life we dream of, life will gloriously unfold in such a way that our fantasy becomes ineludible reality.

Spoiler alert: it doesn’t.

In any chosen pursuit in life, there are those who succeed, and those who don’t. But they both start with the same fantasy, the same vision, the same goal.

So, what do successful people do differently?

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